By Jawad Salim Haddadin
Writer on Social and Development Affairs
What is culture after all? A culture is made visible by the people who hold it and convey it in the arts, artifacts, cuisine, people’s stories, religious beliefs, and family traditions. Culture in other words, is how we do things here. There are distinguishing features that make Jordanian culture stand out.
Jordanian culture is a collectivist culture, one that is contrary to individualistic culture, where the focus is on individual success and achievement. Rather, collective achievement is the main concern for Jordanian families and communities at large. People cherish the families and tribes they belong to, not just their immediate family members. For example, they cherish documenting their family’s history and genealogy that stretches back centuries, find pleasure in highlighting specific achievements that contribute to their communities and the nation as a whole.
A distinguishing feature of Jordanian society is the formation of tribal and family-owned charitable organizations that run their affairs.
These are called “Diwan al ashira”. These are not necessarily focused on tribal matters but rather host a space for dialogue where people show up to socialise and discuss matters related to tribal internal needs and the wider community development needs.
Such civil society organizations are a great example of trust, solidarity, and camaraderie that is visible in the social fabric of Jordanian society.
Another distinguished cultural trait foreigners will experience upon arriving in Jordan is rooted in the values of kindness and hospitality.
Jordanians master the art of hosting guests and know how to serve them well. In a collectivist culture like Jordan, it is not surprising to get asked by strangers in the street should you need help with directions or with a flat tire.
The sense of rush and “only me” doesn’t exist; rather, a sense of “we” prevails amongst Jordanians.
People are constantly looking forward to stretch a helping hand whenever possible. Jordanians’ priority in life is certainly not work-related rather their top values are rooted in their religious beliefs, whether Muslims or Christians alike.
These values are related to compassion, kindness, forgivness, loving your neighbor, hospitality, helping those who are vulnerable and restoring human dignity etc.
If you decide to travel to Jordan, expect to meet people who know how to show love and respect to others, and most importantly, show bravery whenever needed.
On a final note, let us remember and honor Jordan’s government, civil society organizations, and families, for their outstanding effort in hosting and taking care of millions of refugees over the past three decades.
Jordanians welcomed and embraced vulnerable refugees from different neighboring countries who escaped the wrath of war. If it wasn’t for these unique cultural values that Jordanians hold in their hearts it would have been a mission impossible.
The love for restoring human dignity, loving your neighbour and saving lifes made that possible.
